I was going to remove all of the comments apart from Clyde’s original words. But then I thought, why should I? So many of the comments made just amplify how nice guys or good guys like Clyde, and yes me, actually feel when we see wonderful women treated like shit by the picture perfect model type guy who turns out to be a complete and utter douchebag.

We don’t choose to be a nice guy, just as Clyde said. And, much the same nobody plans on being a douche. Its just the people we are and the way we were brought up and the way our minds work.

One of these days, every other guy will realise that if you put the good guy down, belittle him in front of everyone and more, that all you are doing is making us look like GODS in the eyes of the women that you are trying to impress. You will then see the ladies falling into our arms, as they should which would leave you…

ALONE.

This article is very endearing, and hits home. The problem with it is…being a nice guy isnt a choice, its embedded in your blueprint. And as hard as you might try, you can’t get away from it. It has been the cause of infinite let downs, and disappointments. Then there is the misconstrued ideal that all girls are innocent and secretly want nice guys. Some girls are just not interested in that, decreasing the margin for success. Then the girls that may want it, are usually already taken or are too damaged from bad boys, liars, and assholes to even give you the time of day. Its a terrible feeling, being passed over because you are a caring individual. Caring alot about something and knowing that feeling will never be reciprocated. But Still we charge on, with the false hope that someday it will work itself out. That karma will right itself, and us few nice guys will get what we deserve. Hopefully its not too late by then.

Occupy hearts…I am the 1%